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Overcoming Social Anxiety and getting to a meet

Highway Dave said:
It’s very hard to “understand “ given only what I read on here
I read what you write @Carolina not what you think
“Usually you take my banter as it’s meant and show the laughing imoji and respond in kind etc
I cannot and to be honest will not become responsible for changing moods whatever the reason
Saying this, if I have upset or offended you then please accept my public apology
I feel you have been mainly a happy go lucky funny person and I for one enjoy your comments on here, it would be a sad day if you left
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Wow.

I did and I left the thread. I didn't want to say anything I would regret. I am back now. You have not upset or offended me. I am not reading this the same way as you guys, me thinks. I have just had a very tough couple of days and I think maybe I have not been on the ball, as far as communication was concerned.

Anyway Simon, Dave and Jas, I am not asking anyone to work out what I am thinking. I am regretting posting in this thread already, as I don't think I have managed to put my point across at all.

I found it difficult to join, I found a way in, that has gone, won't be here much from now on, was all I was TRYING and FAILING to say!

I do not care what you all 'think' about me - you don't know me and never will, so that's irrelevant. I have made three good friends (I hope) here and that is why I come back each day now.

For any "whatevers" I have caused, I too apologise.
 
I like you Carolina, you have an interesting taste in music and I think that is important.

If you contribute or not, I hope you are happy in life as often as possible.

Be strong mentally and physically and be kind to yourself 💪
 
Yasawas said:
I like you Carolina, you have an interesting taste in music and I think that is important.

If you contribute or not, I hope you are happy in life as often as possible.

Be strong mentally and physically and be kind to yourself 💪
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Your kind words during this very difficult time, are very much appreciated James. Thank you.

I am not good at much, but my love of music has carried me through many, many bad situations, just as it is right now. I am all over the place, so am probably coming across as a complete nutcase in this thread, but hey, I'll be OK. I bounce well.
 
Carolina said:
Wow.

I did and I left the thread. I didn't want to say anything I would regret. I am back now. You have not upset or offended me. I am not reading this the same way as you guys, me thinks. I have just had a very tough couple of days and I think maybe I have not been on the ball, as far as communication was concerned.

Anyway Simon, Dave and Jas, I am not asking anyone to work out what I am thinking. I am regretting posting in this thread already, as I don't think I have managed to put my point across at all.

I found it difficult to join, I found a way in, that has gone, won't be here much from now on, was all I was TRYING and FAILING to say!

I do not care what you all 'think' about me - you don't know me and never will, so that's irrelevant. I have made three good friends (I hope) here and that is why I come back each day now.

For any "whatevers" I have caused, I too apologise.
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Hi Carolina enjoy the club I live alone after my wife of 32 yrs died 3 yrs ago I am now using the club to fulfill some social events like going to shows and meeting other with the same interests like these bloody big cars we drive with pride mine is an E52 I did have an E51 I how have another E51 in my workshop Ha Ha Ha not going to say what I am going to do with it At the last week end traveled over 300 miles to collect a E50 diesel and going to rebuild from the ground up so I will end up with an E52 E51 E50 on the road so Carolina Please enjoy the club
 
Don't be anxious friends, we all have something in common
 
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