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WHAT THE FUCK???!!!!

Unfortunately the more you tell her to dump him the less chance she will.
Personally i think id be inclined to have a little wird with him and put him straight on a few things
I intend to and make it perfectly clear in words he will understand,he booked an holiday for him and my daughter in jan,we found out 4 weeks ago and now wants my daughter to pay her share of it or he will lose HIS holiday ( 8 of them going in total ) i told my daughter that he should have told me earlier as i cant just pluck £504 out of my arse,i think after this he's going to finish it or she is,i have told her that after these last 2 weeks with his shitty attitude i refuse to pay her share,even asked the company they booked with " its the responsibility of the lead passenger " fck him.
 
Luckily the only time i had to talk to my daughter she dumped hers next day.
Its my 13yr old son whos the worry
 
It's a difficult situation. As has been said the more you say no the more she'll dig her heels in. He sounds like a right waste of space and you must be worried sick. Having a word with him might help. Hopefully your daughter will see sense soon. Perhaps if some of her real friends speak with her about it she might start to see him for what he is.
 
See that's it Hoobs her friends was with her doing the same course and told her to get rid they even seen the msgs on her phone from him,she just doesn't want to listen to anyone.

Chas my lads have a good head on their shoulder and wont let heart rule the head lol
 
See that's it Hoobs her friends was with her doing the same course and told her to get rid they even seen the msgs on her phone from him,she just doesn't want to listen to anyone.

Chas my lads have a good head on their shoulder and wont let heart rule the head lol
Sounds like you might have to do the painful parent option of wait for her to realise in her own time and be there to pick up the pieces.
Sadly bundling him into the back of a van and taking him away for forceful education is illegal.
 
So my daughter asks for advice,boyfriend stuff
Generally he's being a dick with her,telling her what she can and cant do,spending HER birthday money on useless tat that she doesn't need,she's just been to Amsterdam with college +24 others for some work experience ( travel and tourism course )of course she puts some photo's of her having a good time and in a bikini and he goes and rant rage with her and telling her when she gets back they are going to have serious words,as her dad ive told her to dump his sorry ass before the next time i see him,even her mum said same,now she's gone to his feckin house and sleeping over,i dont know why i bother...kids ask for advice then do the fecking opposite,i just have this sick gut feeling 1 day he's going to slap her about,then ill go fucking nuclear on his ass.
show her some of the horror stories about how bad it can get if she stays with him and tell her she deserves to not end up being another victim.
Hope she sees sense and dumps him.
 
Just been to McDonald's and stupid posh woman slams her car door into mine while I'm sitting in the back munching on a burger,leapt out and took pictures of her reg number and door and her when she came back. She said it didn't do any damage but I showed her the blue paint on my door said it will come off with a scouring pad,of course I told her I had pictures of it and her she immediately gave me her name and number also offered to pay(didn't say if it was cash or in kind though,bit of a looker)
 
So my daughter asks for advice,boyfriend stuff
Generally he's being a dick with her,telling her what she can and cant do,spending HER birthday money on useless tat that she doesn't need,she's just been to Amsterdam with college +24 others for some work experience ( travel and tourism course )of course she puts some photo's of her having a good time and in a bikini and he goes and rant rage with her and telling her when she gets back they are going to have serious words,as her dad ive told her to dump his sorry ass before the next time i see him,even her mum said same,now she's gone to his feckin house and sleeping over,i dont know why i bother...kids ask for advice then do the fecking opposite,i just have this sick gut feeling 1 day he's going to slap her about,then ill go fucking nuclear on his ass.
I have been down this road twice with my daughter, (she seams to be drawn to dickheads) I could see it coming so had a quiet word with the first one telling him what would happen if he ever laid a finger on her. As it was he never did but he told her what I had said and she went balistic at me saying I should keep my nose out. the second dicked did hit her and regularly. I only found this out from one of her friends, so I got two friends of mine told them what was going on and they sorted it for me. Daughter wasn't any the wiser, and the best thing was that the dickhead left her.
 
Allun.id see what she's offering lol j/k mate people still should respect others property,there all in denial until you tell them they have caught on camera,but shouldn't have happened in the first place.

James,that's pretty much what me and her mum have been told today,to keep our noses out, my eldest daughter said she's going to have words with her when she gets home jees the atmosphere in here you could cut with a chain saw.
 
Allun.id see what she's offering lol j/k mate people still should respect others property,there all in denial until you tell them they have caught on camera,but shouldn't have happened in the first place.

James,that's pretty much what me and her mum have been told today,to keep our noses out, my eldest daughter said she's going to have words with her when she gets home jees the atmosphere in here you could cut with a chain saw.

That seems to be the way it works mate, I know its hard to stand by and watch and do nothing, but say nothing and just bide your time then if and when it does happen come down on him like a ton of bricks. I truely hope nothing does happen to her but for now let her just get on with it and maybe she will see the light and leave the Twat.
 
Why the Fuck do dog owners pick up the shit, put it in a black bag and then proceed to drop the shit in the bag a bit further up the road. Cunts.
Yes ,some do.. Brainless, lazy bastards...
BUT most of us do the right thing ,"Bag it & bin it", annoying to see I know , some poor kids will grow up thinking dog shit grows on trees in little black bags... Grrr..😠
 
That seems to be the way it works mate, I know its hard to stand by and watch and do nothing, but say nothing and just bide your time then if and when it does happen come down on him like a ton of bricks. I truely hope nothing does happen to her but for now let her just get on with it and maybe she will see the light and leave the Twat.

Update to this,she dumped his ass yesterday after saying she wanted some time out but he wouldn't leave it at that and made her look stupid in front of his friends yelling at her ect, a member of college staff had seen what was going on,got security and escorted him off the grounds.

On a brighter note,washer just packed in,dash cam fell off the windscreen and i stood on it this morning!
 
Update to this,she dumped his ass yesterday after saying she wanted some time out but he wouldn't leave it at that and made her look stupid in front of his friends yelling at her ect, a member of college staff had seen what was going on,got security and escorted him off the grounds.

On a brighter note,washer just packed in,dash cam fell off the windscreen and i stood on it this morning!
I think on the whole, excellent news. Now you have more brain time to focus on your Elgrand instead of where you can make him disappear too. 😉
 
I'm annoyed because I'm waiting for the DVLA to register the E51 I've put a deposit on... been four weeks now! Getting more than a bit jealous every time I see an Elgrand pass me!!
 
I'm annoyed because I'm waiting for the DVLA to register the E51 I've put a deposit on... been four weeks now! Getting more than a bit jealous every time I see an Elgrand pass me!!

Shit - it must be sheep shearing season down in South Wales :p;)
 
Update to this,she dumped his ass yesterday after saying she wanted some time out but he wouldn't leave it at that and made her look stupid in front of his friends yelling at her ect, a member of college staff had seen what was going on,got security and escorted him off the grounds.

On a brighter note,washer just packed in,dash cam fell off the windscreen and i stood on it this morning!

Good to hear about the Daughter situation, sadly these things usually have to run there course and for your Daughter to reach that conclusion by herself.

Crap news about the other stuff though :)
 
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